Most of us have been there, lying in bed, having an incredible fantasy and only wishing that somebody would walk through the door who has the same thoughts. The most frustrating part is that you know that there is somebody somewhere in the world who is ready for that exact same thing that you are wishing for. There is also the case that you have a specific wish that you do not even dare to tell your friends. Because they might judge you, but also because you don’t want to live this fantasy with your friends. So the question becomes, how do you find somebody with the same fantasies?

People You Know

If you’re in luck you have friends or colleagues that are open-minded and speak freely about their thoughts and desires. However, in most cases your sexual fantasies are not a topic of conversation with your neighbor or your boss. And even if you have a friend that you confide in, mixing friendship with erotic fantasies can be really risky. If you have a flirty relationship with somebody, you can always say it like it was a joke. So something like “Yeah sure, being tied up is something that I always wanted (laughter laughter)”, so you can always say that you were just kidding, and then just see if it resonates with the other person.

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Truth or Dare is a well-known game that you can play with two or more people. One way to play it is that when it’s your turn, you either choose “Truth” or “Dare”. If you choose Truth you have to answer the question asked to you truthfully, if you choose Dare, you have to do the assignment given to you. As you can imagine, this can quickly evolve into something steamy, and it is actually a really nice way to heat things up step-by-step.

Why Play Truth Or Dare?

You obviously do not want to do anything that you really do not want to do, but you might want to experiment. You want a safe space to do that, but what is that? What is a safe space? It’s not so easy to determine when you can just let go and it feels okay. So it would be nice if you have a kind of way, a kind of setting which helps you to do things step-by-step. There are different types of people with who you can play this, and there are pros and there are cons. This article addresses them one by one.

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Playing a Truth or Dare game at a party can be quite fun. And it is also practical because this way you can check if someone really does the dare, or tells the truth. However, if you want to play online with someone you do not know, this is a bit more difficult. This guide will explain how to play this game online by giving you tips and tricks.

Why Play This Game?

It can give an exhilarating feeling to have to do an assignment. You surrender yourself and you have to do something for the other person. It is clear what you need to do, and you do not need to think any further. You are actively doing something for somebody else, and you count on their acceptance. It is quite vulnerable to surrender yourself, and it can become really personal and intimate. When you play this game you show yourself, and your inner desires.

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