Secret Dare - a safe, honest space to explore your fantasies and meet like-minded people

Secret Dare is a trusted space where you can freely explore your desires, connect with like-minded people, and turn fantasies into reality—without judgment or fake profiles.
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A Relaxed, Respectful Environment

In many casual dating apps women can be overwhelmed by the vibe and the number of men, and men feel like they’re doing something wrong. This is especially true for heterosexual men and women. At Secret Dare we are offering a more relaxed way get in touch. We feel that being flirty is something beautiful, and we want to help you explore.

We are balancing the number of men and women, so that women will not be overwhelmed by messages, and men don’t feel they are constantly rejected. With us that is not the case. Check somebody’s Karma points to see if they are reliable, get a connection playing Truth or Dare, and meet up to spice it up.

This balance generally doesn’t apply to lesbian, gay, or couple profiles, where interaction tends to be more naturally self-regulating.

A Space to Explore Your Fantasies

Secret Dare is a place where people can meet to express and fulfill their desires and fantasies. Whether your interests are playful or deeply personal, you’re welcome to be yourself here.

Easy and Fun Ways to Connect

Interaction is made easier through features like the Truth or Dare game, Chat, and Video Chat. Whether you’re looking for one-on-one connection or something more playful, there’s a way to break the ice.

Our Members

Our members are generally open-minded people, straight, gay, lesbian and bisexual people, and couples, who want to live their thoughts and express themselves. Some are seeking something spontaneous, while others are looking for something more long term. Some have a specific wish, or thought, which they would normally not say out loud.

Meet Up and Make It Real

Many members come here to find someone who shares a fantasy—and sometimes even form a group to bring that fantasy to life. Our platform makes it easy to connect and create real experiences together.

Discover Specific Desires

Looking for something specific? Our powerful search feature helps you find members based on shared interests and fantasies, no matter how unique they may be.

Authentic, Private, and Safe

Secret Dare is committed to authenticity and privacy. We don’t use chatbots, don’t allow fake profiles, and strictly protect member privacy. Spam and ads are not allowed, and any fake profiles or identity theft attempts are removed immediately. We do not use third-party cookies, and you can choose your location yourself. Your public pictures will only be viewed by other registered members, and your private pictures only by connected friends.