Sexuality Online: Creating a Safe and Relaxed Adult Meeting Place – Secret Dare Mission

Adult Truth or Dare Online

Secret Dare is an adult dating website with an online Truth or Dare game and video chat. We feel that it is important for people to feel relaxed and safe when they express themselves, and especially when meeting other people online. We added some features to our website to make it easier, safer and more playful to express and meet.

More Online Interaction – Games And Video Chat

With most dating sites you have the ability to search for certain profiles, and then you can send messages or chat with somebody. This is already a nice way to meet other like-minded people, and to meet somebody who was looking for the same thing. There are people who have the natural ability to chat away and get to the bottom of things really quickly, but a lot of us could use a little help. With some more interaction it is easier to get to know each other, and it’s also a lot of fun.

If you play Truth or Dare you get to know the other person, and it is a great way to just express yourself. The Truth questions are a nice icebreaker for a conversation, and the Dare assignments can be exhilarating, freeing and can build trust. There are more benefits to playing, and we have a more extensive guide to playing Truth or Dare online.

Having Video Chat is also something that makes the interaction much more personal and direct. If you chat with someone it can really nice, but there is always a type of distance still. If you feel comfortable being on camera is a great way to share more intimacy, and express yourself directly.

Search Filters For Fantasies

It can be very hard to find somebody who has the same interests, desires or fantasies. The web is perfect for this, because a lot of people come together in a place with specific ideas, and they can share them. Within the area of adult dating there are a lot of different things that people want. And it can still be daunting on a site like this to find your correct match.

Maybe somebody just wants to chat and is really shy, while another person wants to be told what to do directly and has few limits. We therefore created a Search on Fantasies (or Interests) section, so that you can tell everyone what you are looking for, and you can search for people who have similar interests.

Balancing the Number of Men and Women

In general, there are more men than women on dating websites, especially adult dating websites. We feel that it is important to balance the number of men and women. This is nice for the women because in some cases they get overwhelmed by all the messages that they receive, and that is nice for the men that there are a bit more women registered.


We try to create a place that is friendly and accessible. A meeting place where you don’t have to do anything if you don’t want to, but if you have any desires or wishes it is okay. Secret Dare is less focused on appearance but more on interaction. That is why we do not show profile pictures on our homepage, nor will we use any profile pictures in promotional material. It is also not possible to rate a picture, you can however give somebody Karma points. This means that this person is trustworthy or friendly. In this way other people see which profiles are owned by people who respond to their messages in a nice way. You can earn Karma points by acting trustworthy and friendly.

The Truth or Dare review system also makes sure that if you made a Dare deal with somebody, the other person upholds their part of the bargain, and you have a reason to do your best to fulfill it and upload a picture that is correct. It is also possible to search on Score, to find the profiles that have accumulated the highest points. You earn points by replying to messages amongst others. You can add somebody to your friends or favorites, and if you encounter somebody that you had a negative experience with, it is always possible to block or report someone.

Promoting Sex Positivity

We feel that sex, and sexuality, is something fantastic, something normal and beautiful. It is also something powerful and vulnerable and we feel that it is wise to make sure that you don’t do anything that you don’t want to do. And if there is something that you do feel like doing, please do. Of course if you have an interaction with somebody else, it gets a bit more tricky and it might be a good thing to try and sense what the other person wants and feels, and most importantly ask.

Your body is beautiful and your sexuality is beautiful. It really really doesn’t matter what you look like. Our experience at the Secret Dare dating website is that people from all over the world, tall or short, with different hair colors, with a lot of money or with not so much money, all types of ages, sizes, shapes, genders, sexual orientations all interact equally, and enjoy equally. And become more confident and relaxed by expressing themselves.

Real Profiles And How To Verify The Other Person’s Identity

There are many adult dating websites out there that have a lot of fake profiles, mostly female fake profiles. These are women (or men) that use a fake female profile to chat with a real registered man. The goal is to have the male member subscribe and pay for a membership. The people running the fake profiles are then paid by the website owner. So sometimes if you sign up as a man you will get 20 messages within the first minute, which is a clear sign that something is wrong.

At Secret Dare we only have real profiles. We have a system that screens for bots, so that they do not have a chance to create profiles and start chatting. It is also possible for somebody to create a fake profile just because they feel like it. With the help of the Truth or Dare system you can verify who the other person is, by personalizing your request and having the picture reviewed. We also have a lively community that reports fake profiles on a regular basis.

Strict On Privacy And No Ads

At Secret Dare we do not sell your private information, nor do we use it for anything else. Many websites track your behavior and use the details that you entered, like your email address. They sell it to third parties and in that way make money. They might offer a free service, but that is often the way that they make money. We do not do this, we earn money by offering a service (the dating website) and our income comes from people paying for subscriptions, nothing more. Check out our Privacy Policy for more information.

Another way for websites to have an income is to place ads on their own website. We feel that this is distracting, so we also do not place ads.

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